Choosing a life partner: Allow God to make a man or woman out of him/her before you try to do so.

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Allowing God to make a man or a woman out of this person will save you. Some may agree, others may disagree because, honestly, many people say they have a personal relationship with God, but that is far from the truth. Discerning a Godly man or woman these days is difficult to decipher because there are a lot of counterfeits

However, I believe that it is possible to discern their authenticity if you allow God.

The topic in this blog, in summary, is saying that before you decide to choose a man or a woman to do life with, you make sure they have God in them. You make sure they each know their role. Each partner ought to concentrate on their part; the problem comes in when for example, a man demands submission, yet the man can't even love the wife as God has commanded

We tend to concentrate on what the other partner is or is not doing instead of focusing on what we ought to do. You must allow God to do all the work or most of it before you say I do; that’s the only way you can withstand the storms when they come. Your goal in marriage is not to change anyone.

Make today's blog interactive. Do you agree with the above or not? What other nuggets can you add to this topic?

I am particularly passionate about marriage and relationships because of the scars I bear, enjoy this outpouring and be a blessing to this generation by sharing The Blogs. They are purely based on lessons learnt. Shalom

Adobea (Imani)

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